The first burn of a candle matters more than most people realise. It sets the tone for everything that follows.
Allowing the wax to melt evenly across the surface helps prevent tunnelling and supports a longer, cleaner burn over time. This usually means letting the candle stay lit long enough for a full melt pool to form.
Trimming the wick before each burn keeps the flame steady and reduces smoke. It’s a small habit, but one that makes a noticeable difference.
Candles also need rest. Burning them for too long in one go can overheat the vessel and affect the wax. Shorter, regular burns tend to be kinder to the candle.
I think of candle care as part of the ritual. Lighting it. Letting it settle. Extinguishing it gently. These moments slow things down in a way that feels intentional.
A well-cared-for candle rewards you quietly, over time.